Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. (Galatians 6:2)
I recently had a great conversation with a close friend. Beyond just catching up, we were able to talk about important stuff in our lives. Afterwards, took some time to consider why our friendship feels safe.
We can share significantly and authentically. It’s not easy, but we’ve learned to risk and share something personal, even if it’s raw. We can talk about doubts, failures, and fears. We aren’t created to handle life alone.
We both take time to listen. Healthy relationships ought to be a two way street, a safe place where both people share their burdens with one another.
We’re in prayer for one another. When it comes to burdens, both sharing and bearing, I have found prayer to be powerful in this way: when I pray about my issues, I know what I can talk about. When I pray for others, I’m asking God to intervene.
We are slow with advice. I’ve found that most burdens need to simply be shared, not solved. They aren’t complex problems that need an answer. Sometimes we need perspective and advice, but for the most difficult issues, we need support. When a burden is shared, nothing short circuits comfort faster than a cliché.
BIBLE STUDY DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
With your closest relationships, what are all the ways you express your love?
With your closest relationships, do you spend more time talking about your problems or more time listening? How could either extreme short circuit the possibility of having a close relationship?
Are you facing something big in your life that you are refusing to share with another person? What makes it difficult for you to open up?